tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post3318141696324994765..comments2023-03-31T03:33:33.623-04:00Comments on Time Travel Master, da Blog: Scientists measure how quickly Cool Dude loses three potential brides...Muhammad Alshareefhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15121516558676785213noreply@blogger.comBlogger56125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-25031437073340104562014-01-30T04:01:37.093-05:002014-01-30T04:01:37.093-05:00nice blog thanks for sharing.Bedroom Furniture Onl...nice blog thanks for sharing.<a href="http://http://www.supremebedz.co.uk/princess-carriage-bed.html/" rel="nofollow">Bedroom Furniture Online </a> Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12870017539473012015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-19501677351753824822010-03-22T10:16:11.864-04:002010-03-22T10:16:11.864-04:00Ah. I remember when I was ending a semester in my ...Ah. I remember when I was ending a semester in my grad program telling a professor, "Next year I'll focus on focusing." He thought it was hilarious. The pursuit of acquiring focus indeed can lead to... the further branching of focus and so one becomes the local lost and found, increasingly dense on both accounts. <br /><br /><br />I for one would love to have and finally be focused.<br /><br />Help? =)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16741060312504746396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-49054976673763824742010-01-14T07:15:50.801-05:002010-01-14T07:15:50.801-05:00Assalam o Alaiykum
Yaaa!! Priorities should be foc...Assalam o Alaiykum<br />Yaaa!! Priorities should be focused first.. and a lover of the 3 is a lover of noneShayan Pakistannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-11700784189180457662010-01-09T16:26:48.321-05:002010-01-09T16:26:48.321-05:00I love "zabardast" (conversations).I love "zabardast" (conversations).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-6091641657039803922010-01-07T22:44:55.190-05:002010-01-07T22:44:55.190-05:00Anonymous US
Very relevant .. many people fall i...Anonymous US <br /><br />Very relevant .. many people fall into this trap and lack focus.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-654189411732625792010-01-07T11:29:13.487-05:002010-01-07T11:29:13.487-05:00This is how I see it:
Multiple focus-
Task A, B, C...This is how I see it:<br />Multiple focus-<br />Task A, B, C. Now I know if I do all 3 at once I'm going to end up knackering myself out and be in a ton of confusion without any organization. I need to allot times for A, B, and C. One step at a time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-61901514311132133502010-01-07T09:26:45.778-05:002010-01-07T09:26:45.778-05:00"zabardast" conversation starter and cle..."zabardast" conversation starter and clever I learnt so much just out of comments of bros and sisters, most of us can relate to it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-63765262109070659422010-01-07T07:08:02.243-05:002010-01-07T07:08:02.243-05:00Samira from Germany
Salaam,
First question that cr...Samira from Germany<br />Salaam,<br />First question that crossed my mind on seeing the cartoon:<br />What is wrong with them bruvs nowadays, why would he want all three of them in the first place?<br />Anyway, I wonder whether it's just a lack of focus or whether cool dude needs to learn a lesson in prioritising? I mean, really, those girls move in different and opposing directions. Why not opt for and focus on the best? Life's not Starbucks, you can't have your Espresso Doppio and Vanilla Latte and Tazo Chai Tea Latte...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-90841341880835276372010-01-07T00:09:51.150-05:002010-01-07T00:09:51.150-05:00I'm from Pakistan. I guess in some ways I'...I'm from Pakistan. I guess in some ways I'm a cool dude, too. (not marriage yet, though) I need to learn to focus. But focus on what and how much?<br /><br />Personally, I think marriage is easy. There are only two options: either you marry or you don't marry. You get the girl or you don't. Many decisions in life are much harder. As a student, I have both my secular education to pursue(my CS degree) and my Islamic education. And also my dawah efforts, my ibadah and many other things. Which one of these should I focus on? I can't leave any of them: I have many people to take care of, Allah to please, I worry too much about my peers and relatives and I need knowledge to grow spiritually. Yeah, I can leave some of them but still so many others I can't. People's expectations(parents included) and my own. Even if I find a balance between them, what should it be? 25-25-25-25 or 45-5-50-0? How should I prioritize?Abu AbdurRahmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09076219572390913550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-37429657846364874942010-01-06T22:16:05.839-05:002010-01-06T22:16:05.839-05:00I'm from Toronto and I like the real message b...I'm from Toronto and I like the real message behind this analogy. Cool dude's situation shows that by going through life aimlessly and with no clarity of thought we will not achieve our major goals in life. We should have reason and purpose behind our actions that are clear to us as well as to others. Good analogy as marriage is a unviersal theme regardless of your views and beliefs about marriage. Cool dude should get a life not just a wife.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12539039426354086368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-15599690556857360142010-01-06T21:14:12.829-05:002010-01-06T21:14:12.829-05:00Muslima From Hong Kong
hey cool dudde, you are no...Muslima From Hong Kong<br /><br />hey cool dudde, you are not as cool as you u think you are.<br /><br />Don't take the burden of extra resonsibitles when you can't fulfill the older onces, first.<br /><br />:D<br />BTW drawing is really cool. Alhumdulliah, as for me it really gave me break from so much happenings in my mind.<br />I don't think it is stupid, because no one is born genius, we all need to learn gradually.<br />And Bro. Muhammad Alshreef, is just trying to benfit us with the ideas coming to him.Afsah Farooqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10292650848964159349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-74209627854995962542010-01-06T19:36:59.657-05:002010-01-06T19:36:59.657-05:00I like the choice of analogy here. A man with thre...I like the choice of analogy here. A man with three wives obviously has a lot of time sharing and management to do! I wonder though how Rasulullah with all his duties and responsibilities carried it out? He had 12 wives at one time all at once and not one of his wives ever complained about him. In fact, it was quite the opposite. He had a secret none of us have, i guessRoohhttp://www.whyislamsc.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-76967305485830548262010-01-06T17:20:11.846-05:002010-01-06T17:20:11.846-05:00Subhan Allah. I could not stop myself to say Subha...Subhan Allah. I could not stop myself to say Subhan Allah when I saw (and read)this cartoon. It brought tears in my eyes. What brought tears was the last sentece:<br />""How much YOU loosing because of lack of Focus"<br />Notice, YOU is in CAPS. May Allah forgive me, I really need to focus as I am loosing a lot, a lot, a lot just because I am not focusing and not I dont want to achieve it. Br Al Shareef, thanks for this beautiful reminder.<br />Its not about Cool dude and three girls. Its about me (and may be about many of us)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02496789615292559567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-64688697691923206942010-01-06T17:16:34.409-05:002010-01-06T17:16:34.409-05:00I've tried to do this so many times. (I don...I've tried to do this so many times. (I don't mean trying to be a cool dude by marrying three people =| ) What i mean is, I find three REALLY interesting things to do, three REALLY beneficial things to do or three that combine the two. Tempting! I never know which one to go for so i try to do all three... miserably fail and then miss out on all three opportunities... then never have the courage to try it again. =SJannath, Londonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-57819975975884108712010-01-06T16:54:43.556-05:002010-01-06T16:54:43.556-05:00Alsalam alikom, I'm Dina from Egypt but now li...Alsalam alikom, I'm Dina from Egypt but now living in Canada.<br />I'd like to say may Allah bless you and guide you. I like your stick figures very much. Usually, people play different roles in their life; daughter, mom, employee, student, wife, etc.. Therefore, they have many objectives and many tasks to do in various directions. However, I think if the ultimate target of each of these objections is El-Jannah, there wouldn't be any contradiction. They wouldn't bseem as different targets each one going to a different way. They would be like different targets but all are going towards the same direction. <br /><br />Let me tell you about a figure I am hanging in my room. I have a top circle represents El-Jannah, then I am drawing several circles that are connected together in a way or another. However, any circle must lead to El-Jannah at the end. These circles represent whatever I am doing or what to do in my life.<br />As an example, I have a circle of "good husband الزوج الصالح" which leads to "good children" which leads to Jannah. However, the good husband leads to the Jannah itself. <br />On the arrow between good children and Jannah, I wrote "A good child that prays to him وولد صالح يدعو له". On the arrow between the good husband and El-Jannah, I wrote "Obeying husband". <br />I have also a circle "good health". There are two circles that lead to this one "Playing Sports" and "Healthy food". The "good health" circle is connected to "good children", "good husband", "Acquire knowledge"," Worshiping Allah", etc.... <br />I think if everyone draws such a diagram and looks at it for 5 minutes in the morning, he/she would have even motivation to continue whatever they want to do in their day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-41586263293217852312010-01-06T16:45:28.631-05:002010-01-06T16:45:28.631-05:00As Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakat...As Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu. Jazakallahu 'Khayran Shaykh.<br /><br />But how do we actually focus on something? It's easy to get distracted, get ideas in your head when your trying to work on something.Burhan Uddin , Swansea , Walesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-44632393924969327152010-01-06T16:08:32.580-05:002010-01-06T16:08:32.580-05:00Abu Abdurahman Samir Vohra (London,UK-QShams)
Sha...Abu Abdurahman Samir Vohra (London,UK-QShams)<br /><br />Shaykh Muhammad, is it possibly to achieve different goals in the same time period or is it better to achieve one goal at a time but at the highest level?<br />I try doing many things, with a view to achieve high but find that I get exhausted half way through. My brain tends to crash if its overloaded.<br /><br />PS: The pics are wicked!Samir Vohranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-51622887081423620992010-01-06T15:59:39.987-05:002010-01-06T15:59:39.987-05:00I love this analogy, it is so creative and really ...I love this analogy, it is so creative and really gets to you because u start thinking of your own life and how it applies 100%, and cool dude reminds me of many muslims these days in which they begin with a goal to become better muslims and keep up with prayers etc but eventually they lose their focus and waste time on other non-islamic thingsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-50151328663080924052010-01-06T15:40:22.888-05:002010-01-06T15:40:22.888-05:00Its in the mind of cool dude that he is cool becau...Its in the mind of cool dude that he is cool because he can get attention by three girls at the same time and he wants to marry all three of them when their father think that he is not very cool. He is most likely going to end up with nothing in the end. Its clear that cool dude's is not focus and doesn't have one clear goal and without that how is he going to accomplish anything. <br />In respect to time management, Its my personal opinion that when he is wasting that much time chasing around three girls to marry then, there are only 24 hrs in a day and I believe thats not the only thing he is doing in his life. So, the question is who thinks he is cool? he himself or those three girls?Ayeshanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-4422434790205065852010-01-06T15:01:36.428-05:002010-01-06T15:01:36.428-05:00I love it man, "cool dude's" won'...I love it man, "cool dude's" won't last very long chasing all three. <br /><br />Better strategy is to focus: 1 by 1 and you can eventually have all 3 :) (inshaAllah)Nahyanhttp://www.untangleyourtime.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-61262988562390144952010-01-06T14:56:54.622-05:002010-01-06T14:56:54.622-05:00Husnara (London, UK)
focus and fully engage in th...Husnara (London, UK)<br /><br />focus and fully engage in the activity that we want to persue. If we try and do all the different things we are interested in at the same time, we will lose!LoveRainfallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05117920860955024891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-78429955276284187002010-01-06T14:50:03.318-05:002010-01-06T14:50:03.318-05:00@ursweety
So people are telling you 'what to d...@ursweety<br />So people are telling you 'what to do' (motivation) but not 'how to do it' (knowledge).<br /> <br />Both are important. If someone just comes and says "here's how you install a widget", you wouldn't even care to listen.<br /><br />But if the day before your local Imam told you the importance of installing a widget ... then next day you find out how to do it, you'll have the motivation AND the knowledge.Muhammad Alshareefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15121516558676785213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-69074478399672578152010-01-06T14:49:50.125-05:002010-01-06T14:49:50.125-05:00(Canada)(Canada)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02052597893677203216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-5021408147552336902010-01-06T14:49:13.501-05:002010-01-06T14:49:13.501-05:00I am henceforth referring to Cool Dude as Rude Dud...I am henceforth referring to Cool Dude as Rude Dude.<br /><br />Rude Dude needs to buckle down and figure out which direction HE wants to go in, without any reference to the potential marriage partners. <br /><br />When he learns what he wants, and what his vision for his life is, then he'll easily be able to narrow down who he wants to marry, amongst other major decisions in his life.<br /><br />Then maybe he'll revert back to being "Cool Dude."Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02052597893677203216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76087439719623553.post-15827288053346608572010-01-06T14:42:45.924-05:002010-01-06T14:42:45.924-05:00Umm Amin, USA
Masha'Allah I hope to watch it a...Umm Amin, USA<br />Masha'Allah I hope to watch it and then share it with several of my closest friends insha'Allah. May Allah give us the knowledge and make us benefit from it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com